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Tuesday, December 12, 2023

Adulting 10: Setting up Systems and Routines

Mastering Adulting: Simplifying Responsibilities for a Fulfilling Life

The Art of Adulting: A Few Simple Steps

Adulting—while daunting—need not be overwhelming. By breaking it down into manageable tasks, anyone can become a proficient adult. From managing home care to juggling work responsibilities and prioritizing self-care, setting up a structured system is key to achieving clarity amidst life's complexities.

 Navigating Responsibilities as a Parent

As a single parent of three children, my responsibilities are manifold. First and foremost, ensuring the smooth functioning of my household entails handling essential bills such as utilities, rent or mortgage payments, and other recurring expenses. From internet and phone bills to grocery shopping and toiletry supplies, every detail must be accounted for.

 Budgeting: A Cornerstone of Adulting

Budgeting is paramount in maintaining financial stability. With a limited income, prudent allocation of funds is crucial. Balancing the needs of my children—providing for their clothing, activities, and education—requires meticulous planning and adherence to a budgetary framework. I will be honest I was lost until I started using YNAB. 

Balancing Work and Home Education

In my case, work extends beyond the confines of a traditional job. As a home-based worker and educator, I undertake the dual responsibilities of earning an income and homeschooling my children. This demands a well-organized system to seamlessly integrate home education into my daily routine, alongside essential adulting tasks. Covid through me and a lot of families for a loop that has yet to resolve itself. Although our routines were disrupted, we still had a framework to fall back into. By documenting everything in my planner pages I created, it was only a matter of unearthing my archived notebooks. 

Structuring Home Management

Maintaining a clean and functional household is essential. While I could shoulder all household chores myself, instilling a sense of responsibility in my children through assigned tasks and routines not only lightens my load but also fosters their independence and accountability. The FlyLady saved my life. Looking back at my childhood my parents didn't teach me anything about how to be an adult. Teaching me only about right and wrong doesn't always lead to making the best financial decisions. knowing how to cook and clean is not the end of the task list of a parent or a school. I know how to knit and sew, so what?

Personal Systems for Individual Living

Even for those living alone, establishing personal systems is vital. From meal planning to household upkeep, having structured routines ensures efficiency and reduces stress. It's about finding a balance between managing responsibilities and nurturing personal well-being. You don't have to be neurodivergent to appreciate the adage "everything has a place and everything in its place".

Conclusion: Thriving in Adulthood

By implementing systematic approaches to adulting, one can navigate life's challenges with confidence and grace. Whether as a parent juggling multiple roles or an individual living independently, the key lies in embracing structure, fostering resilience, and finding joy in the journey of self-discovery and growth.

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